PC Virus
Tuesday, April 11th, 2006This is an attempt to join the latest fray. The PC in the title is not the personal computer but the acronym for Political Correctness. Because PC is almost totally legislated in the US, it is hard not to encounter it. In my work place, I find a lot of ‘Equal Employment Opportunities’ banners and information on discrimination displayed on counters and posted on bulletin boards. Job discrimination is a major facet of PC but it is only one among several.
Obviously, this post is sparked by the persistent drone of the illegal immigration issue. I avoid going into that specific topic, so let me limit myself to the PC issue. In one episode of the show ‘The Big Idea‘, the question posed was ‘Is America Too PC?’ The host and guests never did get a consensus but the discussion was intense. In other news, one school in Denver has banned clothing that makes a political statement. For the principal, national flags and patriotic colors are political statements. They probably are, but, come on, let the students wear what they want as long as they look decent. Another school in Virginia sent 2 kids home because they wore shirts that read ‘Latinos Forever’. What would happen if some Fil-Am kid comes in with a shirt that read ‘Pinoy Ako’?
To go beyond the influence of the illegal immigration debate on PC, let me cite 2 examples of PC prior to all the brouhaha.
Example 1: My wife and son were in line to buy pretzels in a mall. A white lady was standing behind them. My son and wife were discussing (or arguing) what they should get so that they’d be ready when it’s time to order. Standing a few paces to the right, I could see the lady look at my son and wife and make a face of disapproval. She even rolled her eyes.
Example 2: Two of my friends, U and G, were talking in Tagalog in an elevator in Vegas. U has lived here for almost 8 years and is already a US citizen. G recently had his petition approved and arrived a few months back. When someone steps in the elevator, U would shift his language to pure English while G continued to answer him back in Tagalog. G then asked U, ‘Bakit ka biglang mag-e-English kung may tao?‘. U then explained that many people find it rude and offensive to hear other languages aside from English. G didn’t bother a follow-up. He just thought it weird why people would be offended when they’re not even part of the conversation.
In the first example, there is intolerance of the unfamiliar. In the second, there is fear of offending someone totally uninvolved in the conversation. I find both instances laughably sad. Both actions–the disapproving look and the sudden change of language–should have been totally unnecessary. While the US continues to hoist the flag of ‘celebrating diversity’, political correctness dampens any expression of it. Is it only okay to be different as long as it doesn’t offend the sensibilities of the harshest critics? Anything and everthing is bound to offend someone. We can’t help who or what we are–and if that something inherent and almost unchangeable in us offends others, it shouldn’t be our problem.
The capacity to tolerate diversity–much more celebrate it–comes from the true ability to appreciate individuality. A person incapable of respecting differences should not be allowed to define the boundaries of political correctness. Come to think of it, political correctness may actually ask people to tolerate the intolerant.
In the first example, why did the white lady disapprove of people talking in a different language? She just might have a bias against Mexican Spanish and misconstrued Tagalog as Spanish. My wife was once told by an American mother that she didn’t want her kids watching ‘Dora the Explorer’ because it has Spanish. But a lot of Americans find the French and Italian languages or accents romantic and exotic. Go figure. In the end, my Filipino wife ordered in English to a Mexican cashier selling American pretzels.
In the second scenario, I have to side with G. If they maintained basic courtesy, e.g. not talking loudly or shouting, then there should be no need to suddenly shift to Tagalog. People who are not part of the conversation should stay that way. Why should foreigners compromise their beloved language for the benefit of strangers listening in?* It doesn’t make sense. But PC sometimes doesn’t always make sense.
Respect and tolerance–these should be the mantras of PC. Respect for individuality. Tolerance for the different. PC asks people to open their minds to the new and unfamiliar; it doesn’t demand others to conform to personal norms. The boundaries of PC is defined by the edges of freedom and responsibility, and not by the margins of the thinnest sensibility. People shouldn’t tiptoe around their identities or nationalities for fear of offending someone.
As Yoda said, ‘Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.‘ And, remember, it’s always politically correct to quote a Jedi.
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* On a side note, let me just say that talking in your own language can be rude if you are in a small group. I once joined 3 of my co-workers for lunch and they were all Chinese nationals. All throughout they continued to chat away in Chinese. Although I was able to squeeze in a few questions and sentences, I felt left out. Poor me. But the food in the Vietnamese restaurant was superb.